In response to my question my new husband wants to go out without me.?

I am new to yahoo questions and can't figure out how to respond to my own question lol. No I am not young I am 42 and this is my third marriage and I have seen so many marriages fall apart because of couples starting out doing a little bit of me time and going outvseperately and sooner or later they end up in divorce. On the other hand all of the successful marriages I have seen (lasting so far 25 years and still happily married and a few till 50 years plus) all of the marriages I have seen that have lasted DON'T go out without the other one... Yes I do need to lighten up and there is nothing wrong with having some hobbies w/o the other. It's the BAR issue that is disrespectful