Ok why don't I get along with my mom(im a teen)?

Ok so im 13 a teenager why don't teenagers get along with their parents(I need parents opinion)me and my mom always arguing yelling at each other i get so mad i want to punch her in the face but if i do im dead she don't play but no matter what we do we don't get along this just started a couple of months ago when i was beginning being a teenager sometimes im disrespectful i can admit im not perfect but she can be a little bad to one time that she wish i wasn't her son because my dog peed on new carpet and it stained it she didn't mean it but my point is she is bad to how should i try to get along with my mom what should i do she is a good mom does everything for me but when i turned 12-13 we basically arguing like mad family how should i we fisk this before we got along fine but know we argue everyday.(Need adult help plezzzzzzz! looking for somebody who has been through this and fixed it)